Executive Director of The Helping Hand (THH) Halfway House and an ex-offender himself, Richard Khalil tells us about his 20-year journey of reintegrating into society, which culminated to giving back to the community by helping other ex-offenders along the way. Read on to find out how he believes kindness can be a catalyst for successful rehabilitation and reintegration!
It was a combination of a few things – some family and friends lost their trust in me and many said that I wouldn’t be able to change my ways. Despite these challenges, I persevered, as I did not want to give up on the journey to be a better man for my mother, who always believed in me and supported me
I received an immense amount of love and kindness from my mother, as her belief in me did not waiver and she always made sure to support and guide me.
I would like to also mention and thank Brother Robert Yeo from THH, who showed me a lot of compassion together with the church community.
Olga, a church member, was also very kind to ex-offenders who attended service. Her words of kindness and acceptance spurred us to work harder and better our lives. She encouraged us to take up bible studies, which inspired me to attend bible college. With the knowledge I have gleaned, I am able to help and encourage other ex-offenders and show them the same kindness that was shown to me.
To me, the smallest acts or even words of kindness, generosity and acceptance can mean a lot. Spare a thought for others, put yourself in another person’s shoes before you criticise or judge them. I believe that if we were a kinder society, life would be much better for everyone.
Extracted from Yellow Ribbon Singapore Facebook.
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